1. Manage your expectations
We often have fantasies of the “perfect” holiday scene. Families or couples sitting serenely around a table, sharing a delicious meal and exchanging cherished gifts. However, this is an idealised expectation that we receive from social or cultural norms and images from entertainment and the media. In reality, perfection is often pursued but rarely achieved.
It is better to expect that there will likely be unavoidable difficulties and challenges: inconvenient flight schedules, long-held family grudges, gifts that are not appreciated. Keep in mind the difference between expectations and wants.
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Sure, we may want a “perfect” holiday—whatever that vision may look like to us-but we should not expect it. With expectations often come disappointments. Wants and wishes carry far less chance of disappointment.