Once you’ve made a date, don’t disappear off the face of the planet. Stay in touch and express that you are looking forward to meeting in person.

Don’t incessantly message each other leading up to the date as you would with a friend. The person you’re going on a date with is a potential significant other, not a potential friend. Keep the conversation flirty, fun and concise.

During the date, keep your phone on silent and put it away.                                                                        

See also: Do Smartphones Ruin Holidays?

It’s a date, so remember to flirt away. If, however, you realise that this person is not for you, flirting is not an absolute must. 

No one ever fell in love after an evening of small talk so delve a bit deeper. Share stories showing vulnerability, resilience, redemption, and/or strength.

It doesn't matter who pays, but the other party should show some appreciation. A simple ‘thank you’ is fine but why not take it up a notch by offering to treat the other party to dessert or a post-dinner drink elsewhere.

Hong Kong is a safe city but there’s no harm in making sure your date gets home safe & sound. Hail a cab for him/her and ask them to send you a message when s/he gets home.

Ariadna Peretz is the founder of Maitre D'ate, a matchmaking agency for Hong Kong singles who want to fall in love. She also offers date concierge services, coaching, and online dating support.

See also: A Matchmaker's Guide To Online Dating