The Great Debate is a monthly Hong Kong Tatler series that focuses on the issues that divide opinion. In the February issue, our thoughts turned to the topic on whether or not it's a faux pas to discuss politics at a dinner party – read the motions put forth by James Tien and Yvonne Kung below, and let us know your thoughts by tweeting us on @hongkongtatler.

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James Tien Says...NO

Although politics is seldom a popular topic at the dinner table, I don’t regard raising it as a faux pas. As a veteran of Legco, I am pleased to share my viewpoint and even political gossip with friends as long as they are interested. Traditionally, one of the rules of dining etiquette we are taught is not to initiate a discussion on politics at a dinner party or in other social situations, in view of the subject’s sensitivity. I understand this point, but for me this is not the case. Some of my friends like to discuss their opinions on current issues with me, probably because they know I have been participating in politics for over 20 years. More often than not, we laugh over my satirical postings on Facebook as a start to the conversation. Of course, a certain amount of tact is needed during a conversation on politics. One of the most important tips is to keep an open mind when listening to others’ views, even more so to those opposing your own. A sense of humour is also a great lubricant. Last but not least, always be respectful.

James is a longtime politician and chairman of the Manhattan Group

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Yvonne Kung Says...YES

I was taught etiquette dictates that a dinner party is not the place to discuss politics. A dinner party is meant to be a relaxed yet refined occasion where you can have a good time with old and new friends. The atmosphere should be comfortable and jovial, and the topics light. Politics is more likely to force people apart than bring them together. We all have different backgrounds, dreams and ideals so we are going to have different opinions on things like politics. During Occupy Central in 2014, the subject was introduced at a table. A friend of mine and I had differing opinions and clashed. The friend deleted me from Facebook and we haven’t spoken since. Conversations about politics and other heavy subjects are best kept to more informal gatherings with smaller groups of friends where feelings can be gauged more easily. At a dinner party, guests can easily engage with topics such as science, technology, movies, music, wine, food, family and work, which tend to bring people together rather than push them apart.

Yvonne is an entrepreneur and managing director of family jewellery company Julico

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