1. Don’t let algorithms select your perfect partner
Aside from the very real security risks that are prevalent on many internet dating sites, the biggest drawback to using such tools to find love is the way the matches are selected. Over the 30-plus years that we have been matchmaking at Gray & Farrar, it has become abundantly clear that the right partner might be a year outside an ideal age bracket, or based in Singapore instead of Hong Kong.
Be as broad as possible with the criteria you select, otherwise, you could miss the perfect opportunity to meet the right one.