Thicker Than Water: For Michelle Ong and her three children, family comes above all else
Getting Michelle Ong and her family together in the same room at the same time is a big task. An acclaimed jewellery designer and gala fixture, not to mention a formidable patron of the arts, Ong has built a reputation that opens doors; all three of her children have inherited their mother’s unyielding gumption and sense of their place in the world, and they lead industrious lives spanning education, business and hospitality.
On the day of the Tatler photoshoot, fraternal twins Jennifer and Amanda Cheung, 30, are first to show up. Jennifer, a teacher, is off for Christmas, and Amanda, looking understandably sleep-deprived, comes straight from Pacific Place, where her new restaurant Wellwellwell opened in November to rave reviews. Adrian, the eldest at 32, arrives shortly after, followed by Michelle and her entourage: a personal assistant, her styling team and her business partner, Avi Nagar, who carries a selection of dazzling jewellery designs to embellish the women’s ensembles. David Cheung, Ong’s husband and the father of the trio, arrives last. Seated in the middle of the group, he says he feels like an emperor. “Ha! That’s wishful thinking,” comes his wife’s quick-fire reply. The room erupts into laughter.
Immediately recognisable by her trademark crop and penchant for statement jewellery, especially earrings, Ong bristles with personality. Her elegant demeanour belies a tough-as-nails approach that verges on intimidating for anyone who dares place obstacles in her way. She is known for being a tough businesswoman, decisive and laser-focused on her work; when Tatler met her, what became clear was that the driving force behind brand Ong is simple: her family.
Ong’s meticulous nature is no surprise considering she has been surrounded by doctors throughout her life. Her father, Ong Guan Bee, who was originally from Malaysia and who died in 2004, was a professor of surgery at the University of Hong Kong, while her mother, Christina Chow, was an obstetrician-gynaecologist and medical superintendent. Then, Ong married David, a cardiothoracic surgeon and heir to the Hong Kong-based confectionery and bakery The Garden Company, in 1985. She credits her work ethic to the example her parents set, especially her mother, who entered the medical profession at a time when female doctors were rare in Hong Kong. The two were close until Chow’s death in 2019 aged 98. “She was still playing ping pong until the age of 90,” Ong says. “My parents were very hard-working and were extremely successful in their careers, but they never rested on their laurels.”
“When people tell me my kids are hard- working, I say: well, why not? Look at me! I’m still running around and doing things. Why wouldn’t they?”